1 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:15,140 My darling Dorit, as I stand here tonight welcoming our friends and 2 00:00:15,140 --> 00:00:17,140 an opportunity for me to confess publicly. 3 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:19,700 Oh, baby. 4 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:21,860 It's you, baby, and you alone. 5 00:00:22,140 --> 00:00:25,820 Let's go through this world together in love. You look unbelievable. 6 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:27,580 You look radiant. You look gracious. 7 00:00:29,020 --> 00:00:31,360 Jagger, what do you think, son? Yes or no? 8 00:00:31,620 --> 00:00:35,960 What do you think? Yes. I can conquer the world with just one hand. 9 00:00:36,700 --> 00:00:39,460 As long as you're holding the other one. I love you, baby. 10 00:00:40,180 --> 00:00:44,440 PK, you bring a lot of color and purpose to my life. A life that is seemingly 11 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:49,040 impossible to live if you weren't by my side. My husband! I was just thinking 12 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:50,040 about my husband! 13 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:55,800 To the man of my life, to the king of my dreams and the mate of my soul. 14 00:00:57,660 --> 00:01:02,680 We renewed our vows. That's a dress I would expect you to wear. We got it 15 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:04,940 the first time around. I don't want to, like, tempt fate. 16 00:01:10,089 --> 00:01:17,070 We had a really difficult year. He was spending a lot of time in London, and 17 00:01:17,070 --> 00:01:18,610 it was the year that I needed him the most. 18 00:01:18,930 --> 00:01:22,690 You have been through a really traumatic thing, and also you have a lot of fear 19 00:01:22,690 --> 00:01:24,030 in you that isn't rational. 20 00:01:24,570 --> 00:01:28,110 And there are also elements that I don't consider are PTSD. 21 00:01:28,370 --> 00:01:33,240 I consider they're more obnoxious. I started to feel... Like, is it possible 22 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:34,660 Pika and I would not make it? 23 00:01:34,960 --> 00:01:39,100 When I first met Darif, she was not quite as high maintenance as she is now. 24 00:01:39,740 --> 00:01:45,060 Do you think he still wants to be married to you? 25 00:01:45,980 --> 00:01:46,980 No. 26 00:01:47,300 --> 00:01:48,300 I don't. 27 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:49,560 But I know this. 28 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:52,780 If I have to go to war, I will go to war. 29 00:01:54,100 --> 00:01:59,180 Once you get to that headspace, it's not going to be easy to pull me back. 30 00:01:59,540 --> 00:02:00,540 You've got to get out. 31 00:02:16,170 --> 00:02:19,070 Storm, why do you smell gusting? What did you get into? 32 00:02:20,950 --> 00:02:22,950 Storm, let me wash the sofa! 33 00:02:27,830 --> 00:02:31,790 Your total for this is $37 ,000. 34 00:02:32,650 --> 00:02:34,790 I hope that wasn't too much of a shock. 35 00:02:35,110 --> 00:02:36,830 I'm not going to have to hook on census. 36 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,820 Hi, sweetheart. I wanted to invite you to dinner. 37 00:02:49,060 --> 00:02:54,500 I thought it'd be nice to have you and Eric and Dorit. Oh, I love that. Are 38 00:02:54,500 --> 00:02:56,320 those puka shells or pearls? 39 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,000 No, these are diamonds, baby. 40 00:02:59,580 --> 00:03:00,580 Oh, wow. 41 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:09,880 Thank you. 42 00:03:24,750 --> 00:03:25,930 Didn't you say jeans fit the T -shirts? 43 00:03:26,630 --> 00:03:27,770 Well, this was easier. 44 00:03:28,270 --> 00:03:29,270 I'll bet. 45 00:03:29,310 --> 00:03:32,530 Okay, look, I have a bar assortment. Wow. 46 00:03:33,410 --> 00:03:37,710 You must be prepared for... Oh. 47 00:03:39,750 --> 00:03:44,090 I have ulterior motive for asking you over. 48 00:03:45,490 --> 00:03:49,470 What do you want? Well, I wanted to see if maybe you would come with me to 49 00:03:49,470 --> 00:03:52,590 Augusta and meet my mother. 50 00:03:54,390 --> 00:03:58,510 And I thought it would be fun to show you Augusta, like where I grew up. I 51 00:03:58,510 --> 00:04:02,290 love to see that. I'm a little nervous about your mom, but other than that, I'm 52 00:04:02,290 --> 00:04:02,869 really good. 53 00:04:02,870 --> 00:04:05,130 Now, listen, I love my mother. Of course. 54 00:04:05,350 --> 00:04:10,470 But she's very difficult. My mother and I have found ourselves in sort of a bad 55 00:04:10,470 --> 00:04:12,110 place for the past 10 years. 56 00:04:12,430 --> 00:04:17,510 My mom still really likes Christian, but I don't know if she really liked me. 57 00:04:19,230 --> 00:04:22,550 I don't feel like I've ever made her proud or happy. 58 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:24,000 As a daughter. 59 00:04:27,660 --> 00:04:33,440 I have been resentful about my mother's praise on Christian, even after we were 60 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:37,880 divorced. Oh, did you see Christian did this in the Wall Street Journal or the 61 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:43,660 New York Times? And I'm like, yeah, but did you remember my store that's so 62 00:04:43,660 --> 00:04:44,820 beautiful in West Hollywood? 63 00:04:45,780 --> 00:04:47,040 Give me some praise. 64 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,140 We need backup. 65 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,940 Let's ask Kyle if she can do it. Yeah. 66 00:04:53,609 --> 00:04:54,609 Yeah. 67 00:04:55,470 --> 00:04:56,930 Where are you? 68 00:04:57,710 --> 00:04:58,710 In bed. 69 00:04:58,950 --> 00:05:00,590 Oh, I'm so jealous. 70 00:05:01,070 --> 00:05:07,770 We're sitting here chit -chatting. I am going to Augusta to see my mother. 71 00:05:08,010 --> 00:05:12,450 Oh. And thought maybe you might want to join us. 72 00:05:14,030 --> 00:05:15,390 You want me to come too? 73 00:05:15,650 --> 00:05:17,590 Yeah. Have you met Reba? 74 00:05:17,890 --> 00:05:21,670 I have not met Reba. You have not met Reba. 75 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:24,360 Yeah, we can hang out on my porch. 76 00:05:25,700 --> 00:05:26,700 No, 77 00:05:27,500 --> 00:05:30,820 this is real personal. It's a personal visit. 78 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:37,240 And I really would like to get to a place with my mother where I don't feel 79 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:43,220 awkward around her. Garcelle and Kyle are the perfect women to take with me on 80 00:05:43,220 --> 00:05:46,880 this trip. Because their mothers have passed, they inspire me to do this 81 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:48,980 my mother's turning 82. 82 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:56,280 And I don't want to have any lost years with my mother feeling this way. You 83 00:05:56,280 --> 00:05:57,900 want to be gentle, too. She is 82. 84 00:05:59,300 --> 00:06:00,300 Okay. 85 00:06:00,540 --> 00:06:05,740 Wait until you meet her. She does not need to be treated with kid gloves. I'm 86 00:06:05,740 --> 00:06:06,880 just going to warn you. 87 00:06:07,180 --> 00:06:08,900 She's not giving people life. 88 00:06:09,580 --> 00:06:10,580 She is not. 89 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:14,840 People. We best get to work. I'll bring some psychologists with us. 90 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,000 kinds of love. 91 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,240 Oh, I think that's both. 92 00:06:40,060 --> 00:06:42,040 Oh, my darling. Hello. We're matching. 93 00:06:42,280 --> 00:06:44,220 Look at that. We're matching. Hi, baby. 94 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:45,780 You're always such a vision. 95 00:06:46,060 --> 00:06:48,700 Oh, girl. What's the deal? Because, girl, we got to talk. What do you want 96 00:06:48,700 --> 00:06:52,480 drink, baby? I want water. Water. Okay, so this is Winnie. Yep, that's Winnie. 97 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:53,419 And the other one is? 98 00:06:53,420 --> 00:06:56,580 Pumpkin. We had so much fun at the beach. So much fun. 99 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:58,840 Bose is making a wish. 100 00:06:59,100 --> 00:07:00,100 Oh! 101 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:15,820 But the way she came in, it was like so abruptly. 102 00:07:16,220 --> 00:07:21,720 She just shut me down. This morning, Jagger, he's like, are you and daddy 103 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:24,080 divorced? I'm sorry. I hate to interrupt. I'm so sorry. 104 00:07:24,620 --> 00:07:27,460 I think we need to get going because it does take us a while to get out there. 105 00:07:28,420 --> 00:07:30,380 Did you call PK? Did you tell him? 106 00:07:30,620 --> 00:07:31,740 What Jagger had said. Yes. 107 00:07:32,170 --> 00:07:35,750 I sent him a long text. I said, I know you're coming back from London soon, and 108 00:07:35,750 --> 00:07:39,790 I think it's really a good idea for us to get to a more friendly place, you 109 00:07:39,790 --> 00:07:42,630 know, for the kids. It'll be easier for them. Never heard back from him. 110 00:07:44,330 --> 00:07:46,570 So the day later, I write back. 111 00:07:47,370 --> 00:07:48,910 Really, PK? No response? 112 00:07:49,490 --> 00:07:50,490 Oh, Lord. 113 00:07:50,770 --> 00:07:51,770 He writes back. 114 00:07:52,550 --> 00:07:53,670 I'm at a friend's wedding. 115 00:07:53,930 --> 00:07:54,930 Have a nice day. 116 00:07:55,410 --> 00:07:58,810 Girl, ain't no way. When did I become the enemy? 117 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:03,720 I haven't heard a single word from PK since he stormed out of the office when 118 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:06,220 were in therapy and screamed that he wanted a divorce. 119 00:08:06,860 --> 00:08:12,200 My concern, as has been, is like, just be prepared. 120 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:17,840 Yeah. His return from London, it could go left, it could go right. 121 00:08:18,500 --> 00:08:21,780 If he comes this week. In service papers. 122 00:08:22,100 --> 00:08:24,400 Girl. I know. What happened? 123 00:08:25,060 --> 00:08:27,040 That's all I think about all the time. 124 00:08:31,260 --> 00:08:36,380 Coming up. You can thank God that I came into your life. Baby, I thank God every 125 00:08:36,380 --> 00:08:38,820 day. You do? Even if I didn't, I would say that anyway. 126 00:08:46,020 --> 00:08:47,600 I'm so excited for this dinner. 127 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:49,160 Oh, baby, I love this spot. 128 00:08:49,420 --> 00:08:50,420 Really? Yep. 129 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:56,040 Thank you. 130 00:08:59,180 --> 00:09:00,540 Thank you, babe. Thank you. 131 00:09:01,680 --> 00:09:04,440 All right. I love it. Beautiful. 132 00:09:04,860 --> 00:09:06,920 Be careful. Something to drink besides water. 133 00:09:07,140 --> 00:09:08,140 We got to do champagne. 134 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:09,280 Right away. 135 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:14,420 I'm glad to be here with you. It just seems like I haven't seen you in so 136 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:17,380 Enjoy. Thank you so much. 137 00:09:18,420 --> 00:09:19,540 What are we toasting to? 138 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:21,160 It's up to you. 139 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:23,260 To us? 140 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:28,480 Okay. Learning more about each other and to a beautiful smile. Thank you, Danny. 141 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:34,460 Cheers. Trying to find somebody that you connect with in L .A. in your late 40s, 142 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,620 damn near impossible. 143 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:42,040 So I really appreciate my relationship with Keely. We are in our love bubble. 144 00:09:42,140 --> 00:09:43,140 Everything is fantastic. 145 00:09:43,380 --> 00:09:45,240 We are definitely goo -ga -ga. 146 00:09:45,680 --> 00:09:47,020 What are we thinking for food? 147 00:09:47,620 --> 00:09:49,760 I would like the petite filet. Excellent. 148 00:09:50,020 --> 00:09:51,940 Do the center cut, filet, medium plus. 149 00:09:52,490 --> 00:09:58,270 Thank you very much. You and I need to have some conversations. 150 00:09:58,710 --> 00:10:03,930 It feels like we're hurtling some things if we go all the way to, like, 151 00:10:03,990 --> 00:10:04,990 fertility. 152 00:10:07,230 --> 00:10:09,790 At what point would you feel like I was wasting your time? 153 00:10:10,990 --> 00:10:13,830 Because I'm not going to say I'm not going to waste your time. I'm not saying 154 00:10:13,830 --> 00:10:14,830 that. 155 00:10:15,290 --> 00:10:16,550 Do you feel like there's a timeline? 156 00:10:17,010 --> 00:10:17,909 Like, hey. 157 00:10:17,910 --> 00:10:19,230 What? Really? 158 00:10:20,370 --> 00:10:22,430 Hmm. Yes, of course. There's a timeline. 159 00:10:22,930 --> 00:10:23,970 I mean, I'm 47. 160 00:10:24,490 --> 00:10:28,490 Where are the eggs? They're getting older, and babies don't grow on trees. 161 00:10:29,230 --> 00:10:30,610 You got to get it moving. 162 00:10:31,130 --> 00:10:32,390 Well, let me answer this quick. 163 00:10:32,930 --> 00:10:39,250 You know, if I want to carry a baby myself, I don't have a lot of time to do 164 00:10:39,250 --> 00:10:40,250 that. 165 00:10:40,650 --> 00:10:45,330 And then I don't want to be at a wedlock. 166 00:10:45,790 --> 00:10:47,650 I mean, we're on the same page, OK? 167 00:10:47,910 --> 00:10:49,350 Marriage, of course, first, you know? 168 00:10:49,910 --> 00:10:50,910 I think you are. 169 00:10:51,500 --> 00:10:52,500 An incredible woman. 170 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:55,840 I love the fact you're not pressuring me into anything. 171 00:10:56,160 --> 00:11:01,240 It's allowing me to move at my own pace, okay? Yeah. And that's really important 172 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:02,079 with me. 173 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:07,080 Keely and I's definition of urgency might be different. His right now might 174 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:11,680 several months behind my right now. But regardless, I know that we want a future 175 00:11:11,680 --> 00:11:14,660 together, and so I believe in that. And that's what I'm waiting for. 176 00:11:15,300 --> 00:11:16,300 The future. 177 00:11:17,380 --> 00:11:18,380 Together. 178 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:26,300 How are you feeling about us at this stage? I'm grateful I had an opportunity 179 00:11:26,300 --> 00:11:28,320 experience you. 180 00:11:28,780 --> 00:11:30,300 You better be. You're welcome. 181 00:11:31,780 --> 00:11:34,700 I set myself up for that one. That's all good, baby. 182 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:39,540 You can thank God that I came into your life. Baby, I thank God every day. You 183 00:11:39,540 --> 00:11:40,540 do? 184 00:11:41,820 --> 00:11:44,940 All right, there you go. You thank God every day? Even if I didn't, I would say 185 00:11:44,940 --> 00:11:45,940 that anyway. 186 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:04,580 Hey, there you are. Oh, look at you. I'll duck out. 187 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:08,380 I'll meet out. If you're going to get a license and you want to protect 188 00:12:08,380 --> 00:12:11,280 yourself, I want you to shoot the .38, because I think that's a pretty good 189 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:12,259 weapon. 190 00:12:12,260 --> 00:12:17,780 I think Mo wants me to feel safe holding a gun should I decide to get a gun and 191 00:12:17,780 --> 00:12:19,120 use a gun if I had to. 192 00:12:19,500 --> 00:12:22,000 Let's do it. We're going to set everything down on table 18. 193 00:12:22,420 --> 00:12:29,260 Ooh, great table for us. After the burglary, I was so afraid for so long. 194 00:12:29,420 --> 00:12:30,420 There was a... 195 00:12:30,719 --> 00:12:33,120 Massive break -in at your house. Tell me what happened. 196 00:12:33,460 --> 00:12:38,060 Yeah. Every single piece of jewelry or handbag you see on this season is gone. 197 00:12:38,300 --> 00:12:42,840 So, why are you here at the range? I think it's important to know how to 198 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:44,260 yourself in case of an emergency. 199 00:12:44,940 --> 00:12:46,900 Okay. Slap it in there like it owes you money. 200 00:12:50,540 --> 00:12:51,820 Nice and smooth. 201 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:55,940 Nice. There you go. 202 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:59,040 Where'd it go? Right next to that bullseye. Right on the bullseye. You're 203 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:00,040 great. 204 00:13:00,260 --> 00:13:04,620 I would like to know that if I had to defend myself, that I could. 205 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,960 And if I'm going to, I'm going to be a bad act. 206 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:10,780 I'm going to shoot the .45. This one's loud. 207 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:12,040 Maybe I need two of these. 208 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:21,019 That's not bad. 209 00:13:21,020 --> 00:13:22,620 Wow. That's impressive. 210 00:13:23,100 --> 00:13:25,520 We're all good, guys? We're done. Thank you, Joe. Take care. 211 00:13:27,350 --> 00:13:28,830 So that was fun. Did you like that? 212 00:13:29,050 --> 00:13:30,290 Yeah, I do like that, actually. 213 00:13:32,270 --> 00:13:33,430 But, oh, it's in the spirit? 214 00:13:33,750 --> 00:13:34,750 Okay, no. 215 00:13:39,250 --> 00:13:40,630 Is your condo coming together? 216 00:13:41,450 --> 00:13:45,610 Yeah, it's pretty together. It's coming, I mean, it's as together as I'm going 217 00:13:45,610 --> 00:13:46,449 to get it. 218 00:13:46,450 --> 00:13:51,430 I mean, I have, I mean, like my refrigerator is, you know, got eggs. 219 00:13:51,850 --> 00:13:56,430 You know what I do is I eat a lot of soups, like canned soups. 220 00:13:56,959 --> 00:13:57,959 Canned soup? 221 00:13:59,540 --> 00:14:03,560 Yeah, just throw them in, little tomato, whatever. 222 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:08,120 How is it living at the house with the girls? 223 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,760 I mean, it's quiet sometimes, you know? 224 00:14:13,780 --> 00:14:19,560 You're like in a new place, and it's so new and different. It's like I'm in our 225 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:20,960 home. Yeah. 226 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,600 I'm there with like, you know. 227 00:14:25,260 --> 00:14:27,900 I'm in a place where everybody was and it feels different. 228 00:14:55,310 --> 00:14:56,310 It's okay. 229 00:14:57,270 --> 00:15:02,290 I walk around most of my days hiding 230 00:15:02,290 --> 00:15:05,310 what a struggle it is. 231 00:15:12,910 --> 00:15:18,210 It's a very big life adjustment to live your life a certain way for decades. 232 00:15:19,230 --> 00:15:20,410 Here we go, everybody. 233 00:15:21,630 --> 00:15:22,630 Quick test. 234 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:26,520 Welcome home. 235 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:28,040 Bye. 236 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:29,400 Excuse me. 237 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:39,000 It really is grieving the loss of someone who is still here. 238 00:15:39,420 --> 00:15:41,100 It's weird to me what I'm doing. 239 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:44,560 It is. 240 00:15:45,020 --> 00:15:47,700 It's still really strange for me. 241 00:15:58,890 --> 00:16:00,690 Coming up. I love your grandchildren. 242 00:16:00,950 --> 00:16:01,950 Very smart. 243 00:16:02,070 --> 00:16:02,989 They are smart. 244 00:16:02,990 --> 00:16:05,410 James is kind of weird Good 245 00:16:05,410 --> 00:16:19,670 morning. 246 00:16:21,730 --> 00:16:24,810 How are you? Good. How are you? Good. It's very early 247 00:16:29,180 --> 00:16:31,240 Thank you. This is really nice. 248 00:16:31,460 --> 00:16:35,480 We should be leaving around 5 o 'clock. Well, we need the other people. 249 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:39,220 Yes. Okay. But I'll be back to give the 10 -minute warning call. Beautiful. 250 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:42,020 Are you the first one here? 251 00:16:42,260 --> 00:16:46,560 Yeah. And you... It's not even my friggin' trip. Oh, my God. Hi. 252 00:16:46,780 --> 00:16:47,900 How time do you get to check today? 253 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:49,160 3 .45. 254 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:53,540 It's Sutton's track. I thought, we're going to fly private. 255 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:58,280 There's going to be valet waiting for us. We might even see a manly hand or 256 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,460 on the plane to massage us while we're flying. 257 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:02,080 Oh! 258 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:05,920 But no! 259 00:17:06,619 --> 00:17:09,040 We took the red eye, commercial. 260 00:17:09,319 --> 00:17:12,260 I mean, there's no later flight to Augusta, Georgia. 261 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:16,819 Oh, my God, this is crazy. We're literally on the tarmac. This is so 262 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:18,700 I need your footage. 263 00:17:20,190 --> 00:17:22,470 All right, ladies, welcome to your place. 264 00:17:22,810 --> 00:17:24,010 Thank you. 265 00:17:24,250 --> 00:17:26,349 Thank you so much. My pleasure. 266 00:17:33,850 --> 00:17:39,790 Well, not a day goes by that I don't love where I come from. 267 00:17:44,570 --> 00:17:45,570 Come on. 268 00:17:45,810 --> 00:17:46,810 Good girl. 269 00:17:48,590 --> 00:17:49,710 Let's go get your mommy. 270 00:17:51,630 --> 00:17:53,130 Thank you. 271 00:17:54,630 --> 00:17:55,790 Augusta, Georgia, we are. 272 00:17:56,090 --> 00:17:58,190 I love this airport because it's very small. 273 00:17:58,850 --> 00:18:00,410 June, where are you going? 274 00:18:00,870 --> 00:18:01,870 Be a lady. 275 00:18:02,150 --> 00:18:07,270 Hey, hey, don't, do not. I know, hey, Junebug. No, where are you going? 276 00:18:08,030 --> 00:18:09,030 Where's the snacks? 277 00:18:09,190 --> 00:18:11,250 We have snacks at home, Kyle. 278 00:18:11,790 --> 00:18:12,790 I'm hungry. 279 00:18:13,730 --> 00:18:14,730 Hello. 280 00:18:15,410 --> 00:18:16,410 I'm here. 281 00:18:16,430 --> 00:18:18,720 Avi. Not Junebug, too. 282 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:21,720 Hello. 283 00:18:22,580 --> 00:18:24,180 Welcome to Augusta. 284 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:27,640 Vamonos. Right, right. Here you go. Here you go. 285 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:29,000 Ladies, are we ready? 286 00:18:29,220 --> 00:18:30,220 We're ready. 287 00:18:35,260 --> 00:18:37,000 Can't wait to see your house, buddy. 288 00:18:37,540 --> 00:18:38,820 Oh, look at that swamp. 289 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:44,280 Alligator! I love Augusta, Georgia. 290 00:18:44,990 --> 00:18:48,510 It's where I grew up, of course. It's also where I learned the art of ballet. 291 00:18:49,030 --> 00:18:53,190 It's where all of my childhood friends are that I still have in my life. 292 00:18:54,530 --> 00:18:58,170 I'm nervous when anyone meets my mother for the first time, doesn't matter who 293 00:18:58,170 --> 00:19:02,130 they are. Especially now, Garcelle and Kyle, because I've flown them all the 294 00:19:02,130 --> 00:19:03,069 out to Georgia. 295 00:19:03,070 --> 00:19:04,430 Please be nice, Mom. 296 00:19:04,830 --> 00:19:05,830 Are we here? 297 00:19:06,050 --> 00:19:07,050 Yeah, this way. 298 00:19:08,210 --> 00:19:09,210 What? 299 00:19:09,630 --> 00:19:11,810 Oh, my God, this is gorgeous. 300 00:19:12,190 --> 00:19:13,190 Thank you. 301 00:19:13,790 --> 00:19:14,790 Holy crap! 302 00:19:15,570 --> 00:19:18,030 You're such a little girl to be in this big old house! 303 00:19:19,010 --> 00:19:21,930 It's not that big. It's like 4 ,500 square feet, I think. Oh, it's not that 304 00:19:22,110 --> 00:19:27,650 No. I don't expect anything less from Sutton. The house is opulent and 305 00:19:27,650 --> 00:19:32,070 beautiful. There's just a Southern feel to it. You know, old school, people on 306 00:19:32,070 --> 00:19:36,730 their porches, having lemonade and waving to your neighbors. It just feels 307 00:19:36,730 --> 00:19:38,110 that. You don't get that in Beverly Hills. 308 00:19:38,870 --> 00:19:39,870 Everybody's behind a gate. 309 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:43,480 Can we see our rooms? Okay, Garcelle, I've got you in here. 310 00:19:43,740 --> 00:19:45,060 It's called the princess room. 311 00:19:45,360 --> 00:19:46,360 Beautiful. 312 00:19:46,900 --> 00:19:48,360 Now take me to the queen room. 313 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:50,920 You get the porter's room. 314 00:19:52,020 --> 00:19:54,260 This is so cute and cheery, the colors. 315 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:55,520 Do you want to see my room? 316 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:56,800 Yes, of course. 317 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:04,020 Oh, this is really pretty. 318 00:20:04,220 --> 00:20:05,220 Yeah, it's pretty. 319 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:09,880 When did you buy this? I bought it with Kristen. 320 00:20:10,120 --> 00:20:11,160 Oh, you did? I did. 321 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:13,760 So you got it in the divorce? 322 00:20:14,420 --> 00:20:15,420 Oh, yeah. 323 00:20:15,940 --> 00:20:17,460 Son, this is amazing. 324 00:20:18,260 --> 00:20:21,000 You made it sound like it was a tiny little house. I did not. 325 00:20:21,380 --> 00:20:22,380 Who is this? 326 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:24,700 That is my brother and sister -in -law. 327 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,280 Do you really want to see some good ones? 328 00:20:26,700 --> 00:20:28,060 There's some old pictures of Reba. 329 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:29,640 Oh, let me see. 330 00:20:37,350 --> 00:20:38,650 So great to see you. 331 00:20:39,050 --> 00:20:40,050 Thank you. Hi. 332 00:20:41,030 --> 00:20:45,550 What a pleasure. Thank you. How do you do? Hi, I'm Garcelle. 333 00:20:46,190 --> 00:20:47,270 I'm Jim. 334 00:20:47,530 --> 00:20:50,930 Pleasure to meet you. I got all squished back over here. Hi, Kyle. 335 00:20:51,150 --> 00:20:52,190 You look very pretty. 336 00:20:52,410 --> 00:20:56,770 Thank you. So nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. Hi, Kyle. 337 00:20:57,790 --> 00:20:58,790 Nice to meet you. 338 00:20:59,130 --> 00:21:00,290 So what's y 'all's plan? 339 00:21:01,050 --> 00:21:03,190 We're going to dinner. We don't have a lot of time. 340 00:21:08,290 --> 00:21:10,170 Oh, this is so pretty here. 341 00:21:10,970 --> 00:21:12,570 Hope this goes over well. 342 00:21:14,010 --> 00:21:15,150 So pretty. 343 00:21:15,410 --> 00:21:18,810 I just bought you a little present. Oh, goody. What is it? Thank you. Well, you 344 00:21:18,810 --> 00:21:19,589 got to open it. 345 00:21:19,590 --> 00:21:21,270 Oh, I like to know what it is. 346 00:21:21,510 --> 00:21:23,050 Why would I tell you? 347 00:21:23,570 --> 00:21:24,610 Why are you laughing? 348 00:21:24,970 --> 00:21:29,210 Is this a trick? No, I would never do that. A snake in here? 349 00:21:29,730 --> 00:21:30,730 Not for me. 350 00:21:31,190 --> 00:21:32,190 A lizard? 351 00:21:32,370 --> 00:21:33,370 A lizard. 352 00:21:35,820 --> 00:21:36,820 A scarf? 353 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:38,760 Yes. 354 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:40,840 You're welcome. 355 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:52,300 I took the time. I went to Saks. 356 00:21:52,300 --> 00:21:54,700 I picked out a gift. I had it wrapped. 357 00:21:54,980 --> 00:21:56,800 I brought it on the commercial flight. 358 00:21:57,260 --> 00:22:00,560 You could do that, too. 359 00:22:02,020 --> 00:22:03,020 That's beautiful. 360 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:04,280 Maybe I should have. 361 00:22:04,510 --> 00:22:06,750 pulled a Kyle and brought nothing. 362 00:22:07,390 --> 00:22:11,250 I've heard so much about you. I've heard so much about you, too. Good, I hope. 363 00:22:11,450 --> 00:22:12,429 I'm going to see. 364 00:22:12,430 --> 00:22:13,430 Uh -oh. 365 00:22:13,950 --> 00:22:16,070 Okay, I'm going to go into my house and have a drink. 366 00:22:16,310 --> 00:22:17,310 Where's your house? 367 00:22:17,530 --> 00:22:18,530 Oh, you don't know that? 368 00:22:18,610 --> 00:22:20,010 No. I live right back there. 369 00:22:20,330 --> 00:22:21,330 Can I peek in the backyard? 370 00:22:21,610 --> 00:22:22,610 Yeah. 371 00:22:23,030 --> 00:22:24,030 Let's go. 372 00:22:26,630 --> 00:22:27,630 It's so pretty. 373 00:22:28,590 --> 00:22:30,970 Wow, this is beautiful. 374 00:22:32,639 --> 00:22:37,240 After Sutton left town, she had to have someplace to come back to for her, 375 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:38,320 Christian, and the children. 376 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:42,160 We decided that I should live on the property as well. I saw this house in 377 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,300 back. I said, that is perfect. 378 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:45,660 And I love your grandchildren. 379 00:22:45,980 --> 00:22:48,540 Very smart, very sweet kids. They are smart. 380 00:22:48,820 --> 00:22:51,020 James is kind of weird, but smart. 381 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:56,020 Mom, why would you call James weird? He's like the cool one. 382 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:57,700 I got a weird one, too. 383 00:23:00,650 --> 00:23:02,030 I probably wasn't afraid to check. 384 00:23:06,850 --> 00:23:08,470 You guys, I know, I've seen it. 385 00:23:09,130 --> 00:23:10,510 I mean, 386 00:23:13,630 --> 00:23:16,790 am I supposed to say I have a weird kid, too? I feel like everyone has to say 387 00:23:16,790 --> 00:23:18,570 that now to make things less awkward. 388 00:23:18,850 --> 00:23:19,850 See y 'all later. 389 00:23:20,410 --> 00:23:26,050 She called James weird. And James is the cool kid in school, by the way. I have 390 00:23:26,050 --> 00:23:27,990 one, too, and she goes, oh, I know. 391 00:23:29,740 --> 00:23:32,080 He wasn't stalking you on the ground. 392 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:38,900 Coming up. I am part Chinese 3000 BC. 393 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:40,920 What? 394 00:24:00,970 --> 00:24:03,190 I think two silver and four of those is fine. 395 00:24:03,510 --> 00:24:06,370 No, no, no. We need to do, I need another, I need two more silver. 396 00:24:07,050 --> 00:24:11,130 Hello. Tonight is inspired by my trip to Capri. 397 00:24:11,590 --> 00:24:12,890 I love pasta. 398 00:24:13,210 --> 00:24:14,350 I love lemon. 399 00:24:14,930 --> 00:24:19,610 There are a lot of factors when it comes to throwing a dinner party. I like to 400 00:24:19,610 --> 00:24:23,550 set everything up and have it look just spot right on. 401 00:24:23,850 --> 00:24:26,330 Three minutes. I got that. I need the ricotta. 402 00:24:26,850 --> 00:24:29,150 Okay. It's a lot of effort. 403 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:38,920 Beautiful. Hello. 404 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:40,320 Good evening. 405 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:42,520 Thank you. 406 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,220 Oh, chilly. 407 00:24:46,820 --> 00:24:47,820 Thank you. 408 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,700 Thank you so much. We have a little bit of champagne here. Great, thank you. My 409 00:24:51,700 --> 00:24:53,420 darling. Hello. 410 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,080 This is so beautiful. 411 00:24:55,380 --> 00:24:57,980 I have to put this down. Oh, honey. Because I have to give you a full body 412 00:24:58,060 --> 00:24:58,919 You know what I'm saying? 413 00:24:58,920 --> 00:24:59,920 One of those. 414 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,880 I don't want to get you dirty. You look so beautiful. 415 00:25:03,380 --> 00:25:05,720 Hello, beauties. Hello. 416 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:07,920 The baddest has showed up. 417 00:25:09,300 --> 00:25:11,400 Ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies. 418 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,860 Gorgeous. I don't know why. I feel good tonight. You entered like you feel good. 419 00:25:15,900 --> 00:25:16,679 I know. 420 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:18,220 You look good. Thanks. 421 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:19,359 Yeah, perfect. 422 00:25:19,360 --> 00:25:20,960 And you do look good. Oh, you really are. 423 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:24,100 Beautiful. Yeah, the second one. Hey. Wow, look at that skin. 424 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:25,599 I try. 425 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:30,640 I love it. I could tell you feel good. Have you caught up with Kyle? I talked 426 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:35,560 her, but, you know, she's busy, and I guess they left today, Sutton and 427 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:38,140 Garcelle. They went to Augusta. 428 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,840 I didn't even know. And you have the connection to the South. 429 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,220 I just want to know why you weren't invited. Well, I know. I mean, this is 430 00:25:45,220 --> 00:25:47,600 what's really... I am from the South. I'm from, like, 90 miles north. 431 00:25:48,270 --> 00:25:50,250 I don't understand why I'm not invited. 432 00:25:56,030 --> 00:25:57,030 Here we go, right here. 433 00:25:59,150 --> 00:26:01,150 Luigi's. Come on back. 434 00:26:02,330 --> 00:26:06,790 Luigi's is an establishment in Augusta, and I've been coming here since I was a 435 00:26:06,790 --> 00:26:10,630 little girl. It's family -owned, I think, three generations now. Oh my 436 00:26:10,630 --> 00:26:12,600 guys. The pizza was amazing. 437 00:26:13,260 --> 00:26:17,400 This is kind of what Augusta is. We all know each other. We all support each 438 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:18,540 other. We love each other. 439 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:23,940 I just want to show Kyle and Garcelle what Augusta is. I love it here. Italian 440 00:26:23,940 --> 00:26:26,080 sausage and sauce sounds amazing. 441 00:26:27,120 --> 00:26:28,440 How are you, ladies and gentlemen? Good, how are you? 442 00:26:28,860 --> 00:26:30,180 Good. What can I get for you on a drink? 443 00:26:30,460 --> 00:26:31,500 No, an alcoholic beer. 444 00:26:31,820 --> 00:26:32,820 I'll do a pinot. 445 00:26:32,980 --> 00:26:36,960 The house Chianti. House Chianti, yeah. Can I order the Italian sausage, please? 446 00:26:37,120 --> 00:26:37,819 Yeah, sure. 447 00:26:37,820 --> 00:26:41,280 I'll try the spinnaker, do y 'all like that? I don't know what that is, but 448 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,900 just whatever. I don't know what it is, but we'll try it. Thank you. You're 449 00:26:43,900 --> 00:26:49,180 welcome, yeah. So when Erica and I were getting our IVs, Uh -huh. 450 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:54,980 And I mentioned that we were coming to Augusta. You know we're going to 451 00:26:54,980 --> 00:26:55,980 Georgia, right? 452 00:26:56,020 --> 00:26:57,940 Kyle's going, too, by the way. Oh, wow. 453 00:26:58,180 --> 00:27:00,140 But she should bring that to the sisterhood. 454 00:27:00,460 --> 00:27:01,800 We should know about that. 455 00:27:02,180 --> 00:27:03,980 Eric and I are push and pull sometimes. 456 00:27:04,340 --> 00:27:05,279 Yeah. 457 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,660 And this is very emotional for me. 458 00:27:09,340 --> 00:27:13,700 And it's why I didn't want, like, all the girls to come. Sure, of course. 459 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:14,760 Because God knows. 460 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,500 No, that's scarier than Reba. 461 00:27:26,510 --> 00:27:27,510 Dinner is ready. 462 00:27:27,830 --> 00:27:30,170 How beautiful. Oh, my gosh, this is absolutely beautiful. 463 00:27:30,610 --> 00:27:31,610 Good evening, ladies. 464 00:27:31,690 --> 00:27:32,690 Good evening. 465 00:27:32,950 --> 00:27:34,890 I have French and I got Italian. 466 00:27:35,550 --> 00:27:39,110 I'm not a wine snob, but Italian wine, even though I'm Italian. 467 00:27:39,450 --> 00:27:43,130 Are you? What part of Italy are you from? I found out. You're Northern 468 00:27:43,130 --> 00:27:48,090 Wait, did you do 23andMe or Ancestry .com? No, when I was in Venice, this 469 00:27:48,090 --> 00:27:54,310 knew everything and knew I am part Chinese, 3000 BC. 470 00:28:01,900 --> 00:28:02,559 I'm sorry? 471 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:03,560 Come again? 472 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,000 What? You're a... No. 473 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:09,300 No. No. 474 00:28:10,100 --> 00:28:14,560 Well, may I raise a glass to Kathy? Yes. Yeah! Thank you so much for having us 475 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,940 over. This is much better than Augusta. 476 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:21,420 Well said. Thank you for having us, really. 477 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:23,560 So, how are you feeling? 478 00:28:24,740 --> 00:28:25,740 Well... 479 00:28:26,570 --> 00:28:27,570 The Reba. 480 00:28:27,670 --> 00:28:30,650 Yeah, that's what I mean. How are you feeling about being here? 481 00:28:30,970 --> 00:28:32,750 She's my mother. I love her. Of course. 482 00:28:33,030 --> 00:28:34,009 She's tough. 483 00:28:34,010 --> 00:28:35,030 She's a tough cookie. 484 00:28:35,270 --> 00:28:37,770 People say that we're a lot alike. Right. 485 00:28:38,510 --> 00:28:40,990 And I'm like, I don't see that at all. 486 00:28:42,210 --> 00:28:47,210 I'm very much like hard on my sleeve kind of person. I've always been like 487 00:28:47,330 --> 00:28:49,630 Where my mother, I don't know if she has feelings. 488 00:28:50,150 --> 00:28:54,050 I've heard so much about you. I've heard so much about you, too. Good, I hope. 489 00:28:54,230 --> 00:28:55,189 I'm going to see. 490 00:28:55,190 --> 00:28:56,190 Oh, oh. 491 00:28:56,430 --> 00:29:02,710 I've only met a glimpse of Reba, but seeing her, one, I think she was 492 00:29:02,710 --> 00:29:06,670 really tough on you just because that's who she is. Not that she was targeting 493 00:29:06,670 --> 00:29:09,090 you or anything like that, but I just think that's her way, right? 494 00:29:09,690 --> 00:29:16,590 And then I think sometimes I could see you being like that in a 495 00:29:16,590 --> 00:29:17,590 way. 496 00:29:18,510 --> 00:29:20,170 Having just met Reba. 497 00:29:21,450 --> 00:29:23,370 I feel like there's a lot of similarities. 498 00:29:23,630 --> 00:29:24,670 Like, they're both tough. 499 00:29:25,030 --> 00:29:26,990 What you did was ridiculous. Name them. 500 00:29:27,310 --> 00:29:30,670 Well, be quiet. Let me talk to you then. 501 00:29:32,230 --> 00:29:37,910 No one really wants to inch in to make amends or say I'm sorry, but I hope they 502 00:29:37,910 --> 00:29:38,869 can figure it out. 503 00:29:38,870 --> 00:29:44,350 When they're gone, you would do anything to have one more conversation, to see 504 00:29:44,350 --> 00:29:48,710 them one more time, to hug one more time. You don't want to have regrets. 505 00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:55,420 I remember you telling me when you opened your store that you had a 506 00:29:55,420 --> 00:29:56,279 with your mom. 507 00:29:56,280 --> 00:30:01,180 I spent a lot of money, I spent a lot of time, all of my heart in this store. 508 00:30:01,780 --> 00:30:05,000 And it's important for me, for you to take it seriously. 509 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:06,960 Okay. 510 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:09,080 Shall we continue on? 511 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,740 It's just that in that moment... You needed her. 512 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:15,120 Oh. 513 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:23,660 I was so excited to have her at the store. 514 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:35,460 I worked very hard to open that store and to have my mother come in and not 515 00:30:35,460 --> 00:30:40,580 be supportive or overwhelmed with joy for me. I deserve better than that. 516 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:44,580 I deserve better than that from my mother. 517 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:51,380 It was real hard. 518 00:31:04,220 --> 00:31:09,060 I was so excited to have her at the store. 519 00:31:12,580 --> 00:31:18,200 It was real hard. 520 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,200 It's just so hurtful. 521 00:31:25,740 --> 00:31:29,040 And she wasn't trying to hurt me. 522 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:31,180 It's just her way. 523 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,080 So what do you want to do? 524 00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:37,660 I want her to respect me. Maybe that's what I'm actually looking for, respect. 525 00:31:37,780 --> 00:31:43,580 When Christian and I got divorced, her first question was, well, who's going to 526 00:31:43,580 --> 00:31:44,580 pay for this? 527 00:31:44,700 --> 00:31:48,020 Like the car, the house, everything. 528 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:49,820 That was hurtful. 529 00:31:50,510 --> 00:31:53,410 That's the mom making sure you're going to be okay, that it's not necessarily 530 00:31:53,410 --> 00:31:55,370 negative. It was about her. 531 00:31:56,030 --> 00:31:57,130 It was about her. 532 00:31:58,110 --> 00:32:02,590 She was so nervous in the divorce that I wasn't going to have enough money to 533 00:32:02,590 --> 00:32:04,210 help support her lifestyle. 534 00:32:04,510 --> 00:32:10,990 That was very clear. I learned that I was raised by a narcissist and I married 535 00:32:10,990 --> 00:32:12,990 narcissist. You feel like she's seen you? 536 00:32:13,580 --> 00:32:17,020 Like, the difference between you being Christian's wife, the homemaker, the 537 00:32:17,020 --> 00:32:20,940 mother, to now being a businesswoman on your own? Like, do you just want her to 538 00:32:20,940 --> 00:32:26,800 acknowledge, like, I see what you're doing, and I'm proud of you? She's not 539 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:27,800 easy. 540 00:32:27,940 --> 00:32:33,900 I think that watching my mother for years gives Christians so much praise. 541 00:32:34,460 --> 00:32:40,700 And meanwhile, I'm raising these beautiful children, and there's no... 542 00:32:40,700 --> 00:32:42,000 for you. 543 00:32:42,540 --> 00:32:49,300 And now, living alone, starting a business, I do want her to acknowledge 544 00:32:49,300 --> 00:32:50,340 it. It's important. 545 00:32:50,660 --> 00:32:52,680 It's going to help me move on. 546 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,460 I would love to have a conversation with her. 547 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,000 What would you say to Reba? 548 00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,540 Pretty much that I've gotten to know you very well. And you've shared some 549 00:33:01,540 --> 00:33:02,540 things with me. 550 00:33:02,860 --> 00:33:07,420 And, you know, see how we can bridge the gap a little bit. 551 00:33:07,700 --> 00:33:08,840 And then I'm going to run. 552 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:17,680 I really appreciate Garcelle's optimism, but I just don't think Madeline and a 553 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:23,640 relationship that is this complex, when you don't know Reba, is a little 554 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:27,840 presumptuous. Can you give me a little heads up before this happens? 555 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:31,120 Before she takes the scarf and wins your neck. 556 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:45,200 Ladies, I got seedless lemon pasta. 557 00:33:46,060 --> 00:33:48,120 Oh, my goodness. 558 00:33:49,500 --> 00:33:51,680 Where's the fresh sage? 559 00:33:52,340 --> 00:33:58,560 I have a question for you, Kathy. I've been trying to get to know all of the 560 00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:04,260 ladies, and you know your sister really well. And I assume that she's probably 561 00:34:04,260 --> 00:34:09,780 open and friendly and welcoming, but I haven't found that. 562 00:34:10,199 --> 00:34:11,360 I find her to be cold. 563 00:34:13,739 --> 00:34:17,540 I think Kyle has been cold to me because I immediately connected with Dorit. 564 00:34:18,020 --> 00:34:21,900 I mean, they've been having issues, so it kind of makes sense. But it's also 565 00:34:21,900 --> 00:34:23,580 very elementary school. 566 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:24,800 It's really petty. 567 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:29,840 What are your thoughts about where she is right now? I think it would be really 568 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:34,760 helpful to understand where she is, sort of in her own mental state, I guess. 569 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,679 I don't even really know what's going on in Kyle's life. 570 00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:39,560 Does she open up a lot about... 571 00:34:39,790 --> 00:34:45,310 I don't like to push her too much because that's when she gets, she 572 00:34:45,310 --> 00:34:49,130 that. Yeah. So I try to be very careful and not bother her. 573 00:34:49,409 --> 00:34:51,409 Everybody goes through something in life. 574 00:34:51,690 --> 00:34:58,650 And this is traumatic for her, being married basically your whole 575 00:34:58,650 --> 00:35:04,870 life. I just tread lightly because I just want to make her feel comfortable. 576 00:35:09,470 --> 00:35:15,090 loved, and, you know, she's a Capricorn. If you needed something, she would be 577 00:35:15,090 --> 00:35:16,090 there. 578 00:35:17,970 --> 00:35:20,490 How are you doing? You're so beautiful. Yeah, how are you? 579 00:35:21,390 --> 00:35:22,530 Kathy and Rick Hilton. 580 00:35:23,730 --> 00:35:24,730 So beautiful. 581 00:35:25,590 --> 00:35:27,350 My life's pretty shit right now. 582 00:35:27,770 --> 00:35:31,150 When Pika and I separated, he was my friend. 583 00:35:31,370 --> 00:35:34,150 I mean, like, we were... Who couldn't help but love PJ? 584 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,120 P .K. P .K., P .K., P .K. 585 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:46,980 You're one of the few very long -married couples. So what do you attribute to 586 00:35:46,980 --> 00:35:47,980 your longevity? 587 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,120 We started out very young. We grew up together. 588 00:35:51,420 --> 00:35:56,420 We enjoy the same things. We don't have to be out to dinner with couples every 589 00:35:56,420 --> 00:36:01,180 single... We enjoy being just together. 590 00:36:01,500 --> 00:36:06,060 When P .K. and I decided to separate, we had said, we're going to take some time 591 00:36:06,060 --> 00:36:12,690 apart. We're going to work on the resentments and the issues that we have 592 00:36:12,690 --> 00:36:14,730 have built up over the last few years. 593 00:36:15,230 --> 00:36:18,070 So she always kept everything very close to the vest. 594 00:36:18,310 --> 00:36:23,990 I was very protective of my husband, of my family. The way I grew up, you don't, 595 00:36:23,990 --> 00:36:27,490 you know. I get it. Even when I was going through the worst of the worst, I 596 00:36:27,490 --> 00:36:31,310 through it alone because I didn't want anyone to think badly of him. I heard 597 00:36:31,310 --> 00:36:32,590 about PK's DUI. 598 00:36:34,439 --> 00:36:35,880 Alleged DUI. What do you mean alleged? 599 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:39,800 They never booked him. They never arrested him. When he got to the 600 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:41,680 took a breathalyzer and he was under the lift. 601 00:36:41,900 --> 00:36:44,920 Why wouldn't you? You've chosen to have two children with him. We understand 602 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,840 that. I think he's a very good father. Am I correct? 603 00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:50,160 Wrong. 604 00:36:51,820 --> 00:36:58,760 Well... There are times that I think P .K.'s the 605 00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,700 greatest father in the world. But is he the most hands -on father? 606 00:37:01,900 --> 00:37:02,900 The truth is no. 607 00:37:03,470 --> 00:37:07,730 So you're feeling... See, I thought you were going to say yes. 608 00:37:09,970 --> 00:37:11,470 I would have, ordinarily. 609 00:37:12,510 --> 00:37:13,530 Protecting him, I would. 610 00:37:14,530 --> 00:37:20,290 Reality? No. He would disappear and be gone for weeks and weeks without even 611 00:37:20,290 --> 00:37:21,590 calling the kids. 612 00:37:22,250 --> 00:37:29,090 I worked overtime to put in their heads that their father was trying to call, 613 00:37:29,190 --> 00:37:32,930 wanted to see them, missed them so much. I protected him. 614 00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,000 at all costs, no matter what. 615 00:37:35,220 --> 00:37:38,160 And I don't think she realizes that. How old is he? 616 00:37:38,460 --> 00:37:39,460 56. 617 00:37:40,780 --> 00:37:43,860 You know, when I first met him, I thought he was 56. 618 00:37:44,860 --> 00:37:46,600 I've known him a long time. 619 00:37:46,980 --> 00:37:51,840 But the more I got to know him, I think that's why I closed my eyes. 620 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:56,180 No, but now, the more I got to know him, I feel terrible. 621 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,680 I have nothing to say, okay? 622 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,600 Because black don't crack, so I don't know nothing about that. 623 00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:09,920 I didn't think he'd be doing what he's doing now. 624 00:38:10,240 --> 00:38:11,240 Well, what is he doing? 625 00:38:11,500 --> 00:38:12,500 Right. 626 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:14,780 I'm the girl that wants to know. 627 00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:16,780 He just wrote this really angry, horrible note. 628 00:38:17,460 --> 00:38:21,960 What? What's in it? What did it say? Just finances, and I'm going to stop 629 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,720 this, and you're going to be liable for this. Where are we going with this? 630 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:28,280 Honey, that's a divorce. I thought we were trying to take a little separation. 631 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:29,480 Right, that's not a separation. 632 00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:31,520 I wake up. 633 00:38:31,690 --> 00:38:38,550 to a seven -page email and it was a barrage. 634 00:38:38,770 --> 00:38:41,150 It was predominantly financial. 635 00:38:41,990 --> 00:38:48,150 His expectations were within a month or two 636 00:38:48,150 --> 00:38:53,630 that I will be responsible for the mortgage and all the bills associated 637 00:38:53,630 --> 00:38:56,350 the house. It's like, what the... Get a lawyer. 638 00:38:57,130 --> 00:39:00,430 There was also discussion of... 639 00:39:02,220 --> 00:39:08,220 custody, lawyers, and threat of, if this doesn't happen, 640 00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:12,280 I will be proceeding with divorce. 641 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,900 He is not a man I recognize at all. 642 00:39:16,260 --> 00:39:22,100 This is what happens when people get a divorce. The email and the comment about 643 00:39:22,100 --> 00:39:24,480 being a good father or not, the gloves are off. 644 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:29,520 Everybody's at their absolute worst, and that's what's coming out. 645 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:34,320 I've not seen one woman have a peaceful divorce unless the guy died. 646 00:39:35,380 --> 00:39:38,240 Can I ask a question, and you can hate me for this? What are you holding on to? 647 00:39:38,340 --> 00:39:39,299 What are you doing? 648 00:39:39,300 --> 00:39:41,440 Do you think he still wants to be married to you? 649 00:39:42,340 --> 00:39:44,400 No, I don't. 650 00:39:46,460 --> 00:39:47,700 Then what are you waiting for? 651 00:40:01,740 --> 00:40:03,540 Do you think he still wants to be married to you? 652 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:05,320 No. 653 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:06,640 I don't. 654 00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:09,840 Then what are you waiting for? 655 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:20,580 I am the token idiot wife. No, you're not. You're not. What you're doing is 656 00:40:20,580 --> 00:40:22,900 you're taking the rose -colored glasses off your face. 657 00:40:23,180 --> 00:40:26,980 That is what you're doing. Right. Rose -colored glasses. And it is about time. 658 00:40:27,140 --> 00:40:29,540 Idiot. What about the contact lenses? 659 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:30,760 Well, those are next. 660 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,960 You know, we've been married nine and a half years. 661 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,980 And I just found out that there's a law in California. 662 00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:43,540 Yeah, it's community property. You can get half. He's trying to divorce you 663 00:40:43,540 --> 00:40:44,540 before ten years. 664 00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:46,180 When is ten years? 665 00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:47,760 In six months. 666 00:40:48,180 --> 00:40:49,600 Oh, hell no! 667 00:40:50,180 --> 00:40:51,180 Oh, my God. 668 00:40:51,580 --> 00:40:52,580 Ain't no way. 669 00:40:53,180 --> 00:40:54,380 Girl, no way. 670 00:40:55,100 --> 00:40:56,100 That hurt. 671 00:40:58,540 --> 00:40:59,740 I don't know this man. 672 00:41:00,710 --> 00:41:04,290 In California, when you hit the 10 -year mark, you're considered a long -term 673 00:41:04,290 --> 00:41:07,290 marriage, which means it's half, half, and that's that. 674 00:41:07,870 --> 00:41:12,910 And I think spousal support is forever after a 10 -year marriage. One of you is 675 00:41:12,910 --> 00:41:16,970 going to be paying for the length of the person's life. That's why if you're 676 00:41:16,970 --> 00:41:18,790 going to jump ship, do it before 10 years. 677 00:41:19,090 --> 00:41:20,310 Dorita, I worry about you. 678 00:41:21,110 --> 00:41:25,850 I really do. And I'm sorry you're going through this. But I cannot sit here and 679 00:41:25,850 --> 00:41:27,650 bullshit with you when I know. 680 00:41:28,410 --> 00:41:31,310 What's coming for you? I wouldn't be a good friend. You've begged for honesty, 681 00:41:31,410 --> 00:41:34,430 and I'm going to give it to you. You have to protect yourself. You have to 682 00:41:34,470 --> 00:41:35,470 hold on a second. 683 00:41:35,590 --> 00:41:37,510 The price of poker has completely changed. 684 00:41:38,070 --> 00:41:39,190 This is not my partner. 685 00:41:39,630 --> 00:41:40,650 This is not my friend. 686 00:41:40,870 --> 00:41:42,470 This is my adversary now. 687 00:41:42,970 --> 00:41:49,430 And let me tell you, that is a tough place, as I have hair on my arm. That is 688 00:41:49,430 --> 00:41:51,630 tough place to be, but that is where you are. 689 00:41:52,030 --> 00:41:54,070 And I don't know any other way to say that to you. 690 00:41:54,670 --> 00:41:58,010 You have to be proactive. I'm telling you right now, if you don't make these 691 00:41:58,010 --> 00:42:01,330 decisions, life will make it for you. Yes. He will make it for you. He will 692 00:42:01,330 --> 00:42:02,330 it for you. 693 00:42:02,830 --> 00:42:03,950 Please be proactive. 694 00:42:04,730 --> 00:42:09,630 And I'm preaching to myself as much as I'm preaching to you because I could 695 00:42:09,630 --> 00:42:10,630 done a better job for myself. 696 00:42:11,710 --> 00:42:13,250 But I was paralyzed by fear. 697 00:42:14,690 --> 00:42:17,050 And I waited till the last minute. 698 00:42:17,610 --> 00:42:20,810 And I shouldn't have. Yes. Don't get to the place of being desperate. 699 00:42:21,390 --> 00:42:22,410 Desperation breeds. 700 00:42:23,190 --> 00:42:26,390 No good strategy, girl. Oh, hell no. That's what I've heard in business. 701 00:42:28,610 --> 00:42:29,589 Oh, God. 702 00:42:29,590 --> 00:42:30,590 I know this. 703 00:42:30,670 --> 00:42:33,770 If I have to go to war, I will go to war. 704 00:42:35,050 --> 00:42:40,250 Once you get to that headspace, it's not going to be easy to pull me back. 705 00:42:41,210 --> 00:42:44,250 But don't you think I have to be sure that I don't want to go back? 706 00:42:44,590 --> 00:42:45,810 He doesn't want you back. 707 00:42:47,210 --> 00:42:51,670 If that's the case... 708 00:42:52,030 --> 00:42:54,870 Everything you've told us tonight indicates that that's the situation. 709 00:43:01,150 --> 00:43:02,210 You got to get out. 710 00:43:04,190 --> 00:43:05,890 You got to get out. 711 00:43:06,850 --> 00:43:07,850 Oh. 712 00:43:12,050 --> 00:43:16,690 Next time on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. The cabana is getting new 713 00:43:16,690 --> 00:43:21,150 life. Does that look good to you? You don't want dry grits. Turn it off. 714 00:43:22,250 --> 00:43:26,110 Okay. Keely and I have talked about having a baby. We've actually never said 715 00:43:26,110 --> 00:43:27,110 words, I love you. 716 00:43:28,070 --> 00:43:29,490 You guys just spoke to PK. 717 00:43:29,770 --> 00:43:30,970 What did he say, girl? 718 00:43:32,170 --> 00:43:37,030 I would just love to hear you say that you're proud of her and that you love 719 00:43:37,030 --> 00:43:39,350 too. I don't think that's any of your business.